Monday, December 28, 2009

My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I just found out that my 12-year-old daughter has a Myspace, when I was looking at our laptop's internet history. I've heard alot of bad things about mySpace on the internet over the past year. I saw her myspace profile, it's decent and doesn't have a picture. Her profile is on private and when I went into her account, I recognized that all of her friends of MySpace are her friends that go to school with her and have been over to her house.



Should I really delete if there's nothing bad? I'm pretty sure she was pressured by her friends at school to make one, because it doesn't seem like her to make one because last year I heard her say to a friend Myspace was for losers.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

i think you should leave alone



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

okay...there is a lot of kids with myspace that are a little young for it but like i'm 12 and I have one....just tell her that she is not allowed to put inappropriate things on there and not add anyone that she does not know!!!! cuz if u delete it u know she will never forgive you. Report It



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I think you should talk to her and delete it. I'm also being pressured by kids at school to get a MySpace and I still don't have one. First of all, online profiles are really dangerous whether it includes personal info or not. She should use AIM. Report It



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I think you should trust your child. If you're concerned, sit down with her and explain to her never to give out her address etc to a stranger on the net.



Don't delete it. That's like punishment without the crime. She's only chatting to her friends.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Perhaps having an open discussion with your daughter might be worth your time - deleting something of hers that personal is invasive - even if you think it's the right thing to do... it sends the wrong message. Far be it from me to interfere with the dynamics of your family, but as a parent myself, we should be mentors (not police).. we should lead by example, keep lines of communication open and let our children make their own mistakes... we should be there as a support system, not a governing body. we should lead them in the right direction, but let them make their own choices...



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Don't delete it - it seems like she's being very responsible. You can't say that she was pressured into doing it, people change and kids don't always tell their parents everything. If you delete it, she might just start to rebel and she can always make a new one. Kids need space to do their own thing and as long as you didn't see nude pictures and out-of-order behavior there's nothing to worry about.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I don't think you should delete it. You will cause her to think you do not trust her. There are some people who just use it to communicate with their friends, no matter what they say on the news. I think as long as you discuss it with her and let her know what you expect it will be fine. It sounds like you are raising a smart daughter.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

WHY whats a matter with myspace,ive got one and im not a loser ,i dont even know what its for.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Don't delete it without confronting her about it. Just ask her how long she's had it and if she has had any mysterious confrontations. Don't drill her about it, because if she doesn't have any pictures of herself on there, she's a smart girl. I'd also advise talking about internet safety as well.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

NO, BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE LIE ABOUT THERE AGE ON MYSPACE JUST TO SIGN UP.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

why should u?? talk to her bout it if u really want to...



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

you shouldn't delete it b/c she sounds like she is being very responisible with it...and also if you are worried about it then you shouldn't delete the account without telling her, you should definitely talk to her if you are worried...but don't delete it without saying anything because she sounds like she can handle it responsibly...



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I have a myspace and from my point of view there is nothing wrong with it, its a way (for me) of escaping my everyday working life. For her its probably to keep in touch with her friends!



I think you should trust her, if you delete it then she will resent you for it, and also could just make a new one!



If you want to find out if she is doing anything she shouldnt be then play detective, but i doubt she is! I'm sure she's just having fun!!



Dont worry! xx



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

i think if she has it set on private and no pictures then she is a very smart girl at her age and you should trust her. just as long as she doesn't give out any personal information then i wouldn't worry about it. also the private setting on myspace wont allow anyone to add her or try to add her without knowing her last name so i think it Will be OK.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Let it go! Don't delete her space. If you do, it'll cause her to rebel! There's nothing worse than a parent going through your private things even if its a myspace site. Myspace is just a webpage to share what you want with people, to be creative and identify with yourself. When she's ready to delete it, she'll do it herself!



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I have a myspace account, I use it to keep in touch with my friends in college, and who have moved away. I think you should let her keep it with the understanding that you will check it randomly, and that she doesn't give information on her school, or anything that could give someone the knowledge of where she lives, also, you might tell her to limit her interactions with people she already knows.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

nah just look at everything she been she only wat 12 she dont need no privacy and it depend if u know your daughter you got trust wat she will or will not do



ps u cant worry bout wat she thinks of you. you is her motha you do wat u think is rite.



much luv



ya girl



Quita



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

seriously myspacr isnt that bad, it may have a few stupid phycos but u can go to the grocery store and see phycos, all you have to do is make sure she knows all the friends she has and not go so far where u invade her privacy.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

as long as she knows everone on it and doesnt have her picture or age, location, %26amp; and some other stuff it will be fine. myspace is not that bad. u should trust her and tell her if she doesnt give out information she could have it.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

If myspace is used responsibly its ok. If theres nothing bad than dont delete it. Since Ive gotten a myspace Ive reconnected with a few old friends.



Just make sure that her profile is private and she knows everyone on her friends list. You can also go into privacy settings and change her setting so that when someone adds her they have to know her last name or email address.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Don't delete it.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I have the same situation in my house. My daughter is 12 and she and all of her friends are my space junkies! Just keep an eye on it. The rule in my house is that I have access to her profile and that I am informed of her password. We have already gone over all of the basic rules regarding safety and security. I do check on it occasionally and there have been times when I have seen a thing or two that I find to be innappropriate....but not too bad. Mostly just the the language used between she and her friends on messages and the occasional friend that has inappropriate pics. Keep an eye on that because they can add celebrities to their list of friends, and sometimes junk filters through.



Just keep an eye on it. If she is unhappy with you checking in...then she shouldn't have it. If there is nothing to hide..then she shouldn't have a problem. Let her know that you DO trust her....it's the rest of the world you are worried about! It is your job to protect her...I bet the parents of victims wish they had checked a little closer.



Good Luck!



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

No. It's not your bussiness. That means you do not trust her.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

well if she did not wanted to make one she would not.MYSpace is for teenagers to communicate look dont reeport but im 13 n my myspace is on private n yeah i said myspace is for ppl with no life but when i tryed it i liked it and i changed my opinion on it so ask her irst before u deleted cause then she might not trust you.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

dont delete it just talk to her about it and make sure you can get on it an look and change what is on there.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

If you want to let her keep the My-Space, that is up to you. BUT%26gt;%26gt;The rule of having the computer in a place where the parents can watch is VERY effective. Experts will tell you to have the computer the child uses in the living room, family room, etc. where you know what is going on. Tell her to NEVER, NO exceptions, give her name, address or ANY personal info to anyone on the Internet. She most likely is or will be talking in chat rooms and no matter how mature she is, there are people who she will think are her "friends.". After "talking on line" with these people, they really feel like friends, when in reality we have NO idea who these people are. Most are good people, BUT..there are those who prey on children and it's a fact of life.



It's our job, as parents, to monitor what our children are doing and to keep them safe.



The Internet is wonderful, but it can also be dangerous.



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Dar is nutin wrong wit MySpace its just a place 2 talk 2 ur m8z lik bebo r facebox r anyting else lik dat!!!Leave her n stop lookin up on ur childs history!!!!



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Dont you dare delete it or shell hate you forever and your life will be worthless!!



It takes up to 4 months to make your homepage good and if you delete it she will be so angry with you!!



Just trying to help!!!



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

I know there are alot of bad things about it, but bad things are going to be everywhere. Nothing seems to be wrong. All you have to do is talk to her. Let her know the dangers and your concerns. Don't delete her Mypsace, that will only make her angry. Just talk to her and monitor the usage.



Good luck



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

don't delete it..but i think that you should check it like once a week to make sure there is nothing on there that shouldn't be



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

Its just a little space available on DATAbase...



let it be



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

if shes 12 yes i would delete it i have freinds that have myspace and its not good for a young girl to be on!



My 12-year-old daughter was a MySpace, should I delete it?

yes, asap

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